There has to be a way to get these AI moving around. I am not giving up this time, but it doesn't help that I still don't have a Tools menu with Traffic Tools.

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What would be great if a SOH member, with experience with these things, could get connected with me via Team Viewer and maybe get this resolved!
Chief,
I can't help you via Team Viewer or with FSX SE, but I did check our MAIW download database and found that the only MAIW Whidbey Island package we ever released was named MAIW Whidbey Island Growlers_Desmond Burrell.zip released on August 29, 2015, so I assumed that this is one of the 2 MAIW packages that you were having trouble with in FSX.
I had never installed this package in FSX myself, so I just did to see if I had the same problem that you have and I definitely don't.
When I started FSX at NAS Whidbey Island today, Monday, 3-28-2016 at 18:00 Z, there are 20 EA-18G's parked with 9 scheduled to depart on Monday and 11 scheduled to depart on Tuesday. In addition there are 2 F-18C's, Expert 56 and 57, inbound from NAS Lemoore for a 18:10 Z arrival.
2 EA-18G's, Rampage 21 and 22, are receiving their IFR clearance for an 18:00 Z departure for NAS Fort Worth JRB before taxiing out to Runway 14 and departing as scheduled. At 18:18 Z 2 more EA-18G's, Scorp 21 and 22, receive their IFR clearance to the Olympic Alpha MOA, taxi out to Runway 14 and takeoff as scheduled.
After that there are additional flights scheduled for 19:50 Z, 21:00 Z and 22:58 Z. I didn't watch all of those, but I have no reason to believe that they wouldn't depart as scheduled.
If you are indeed using an ADE file named NAS Whidbey, then that is probably the source of your problem. The MAIW AFCAD2 file for NAS Whidbey Island that was included in the MAIW Whidbey Island Growlers_Desmond Burrell.zip file is named MAIW_AF2_KNUW_CUSTOM and is the one that should be used with this package. It does have quite a few "unconnected nodes" but they are intentionally unconnected for design purposes and have no affect on any of the EA-18G flights.
Hopefully this information will help you get the MAIW Whidbey Island Growlers package working properly.