saved again
In the continuing saga of my problems, I found the cause of what happened(I think) anyway it worked). First I admit I paniced and didn't think of I system restore. I did that and everything went back to the way it's supposed to be, being careful not to do a restore so far back that I lost the effects I put in.
I think the problem ,(at least when it started ) was when I installed the HurrIID Can Opener ,then tried to put in Sandersons IID which is the same plane only stand alone, I tried renameing it and put it in and thats when all hell broke loose. I guess FS9 doesn't like having two of the same plane ,the one I renamed didn't show in the aircraft list only the Can Opener IID and the sim went nutso. I did the restore put all planes back and thank God every thing is ok now. I even figured out my drop tank issue with the Sea Hurris. The trick is to push shift + w as I was told ,but then when the tanks get close to the wings let go very quickly and then push and realese shift + w.
It's late ,I'am beat and doing what I said I wouldn't do ,let this thing run my life.
Thankyou for the advice I might need it someday.