Please see the most recent updates in the "Where did the .com name go?" thread. Posts number 16 and 17.
The only consolation maybe that with less vehicle use and savings that can occur when one has more time to slow cook wholesome but cheaper meals and take on more do it yourself chores, you would be surprised at how much less you can get by on. It's a lot harder with kids in the house, because they don't want to be uncool, but it can be done. I have been off work for 2 1/2 years on a disability claim and have had to make the said adjustments. I used to spend a heck of a lot of time and money just to get to work and back.
