• There seems to be an uptick in Political comments in recent months. Those of us who are long time members of the site know that Political and Religious content has been banned for years. Nothing has changed. Please leave all political and religious comments out of the forums.

    If you recently joined the forums you were not presented with this restriction in the terms of service. This was due to a conversion error when we went from vBulletin to Xenforo. We have updated our terms of service to reflect these corrections.

    Please note any post refering to a politician will be considered political even if it is intended to be humor. Our experience is these topics have a way of dividing the forums and causing deep resentment among members. It is a poison to the community. We appreciate compliance with the rules.

    The Staff of SOH

  • Server side Maintenance is done. We still have an update to the forum software to run but that one will have to wait for a better time.

Need some advice please girl problem Scared to death here!!!

After the break up of my first marriage, I caught back up with a woman who I've known since we were kids. We'd been friends since Jr High and just kind of gravitated to each other. For the next few years we were pretty much inseperable. But the thing is this. Neither of us were looking for a relationship, just had fun being together as friends. Both of us were recently out of disasterous marriages and it did us both good just being best friends. She eventually started seeing someone else and I met Mrs Willy while on a road trip with her. We're still great friends to this day, just don't see as much of each other as we did when we were single and realize that our friendship is worth more than a relationship would have been.

Just take it slow and see where things lead. Old friends are the best ones.
 
Went out last night with my Friend.. had a good time, a nice Chinese dinner, and had a nice
long talk..
I do feel sorry for Her, a daughter who she is at odds with..
Raising Her grand children because of her daughters drug and mental problems..
And a crazy sister, Who I also share a long friendship with..

I am grateful for the time together, But too much baggage..
WOW..

I will remain her friend, we spoke last nite when I called to speak about all of this between us..
She asked if we could have dinner together, instead of waiting..
I said yes, so off I went..

Even put on my one clean shirt..:icon_lol:

And yes like always my old soft heart was deeply touched by all of this..
I am truly heart broken to hear and see how things are for Her..
She is a nice and kind Lady, who does deserve better..
I can't heal Her problems..

I will Be Her Friend as I have always been..
Thank God, my life is much more quiet..
And I do Pray her life will be better.. I will talk and help Her as I can with my support and with a Honest, Caring.. Ear..
Like most males, I want to fix everything..
I know from years of Being a friend and adviser to many
It is best just to listen most of the time..
I think I will Pray Lots, and keep My Hobbit Life..

Thanks all for your kind caring advice..
 
I shall admit, after all the dust has settled, She is lovely.. And a wonderful person..
BUT I AM HAPPY WITH MY HOBBIT LIFE..
Yes, I do life alone, and I will die alone..
But it is my choice..

And I like being able to make such choices without having to be worried about what someone else may think or want...
I will as I can be Her friend as I have always been for a life time..
But I am Not ready to go back to High School and be Her "boyfriend"..

I walked away a lifetime ago from this..
And as they do say, You can't go back..

So, I wore my only clean shirt Too, does it count if I don't wash it??
Only wore it once you know..
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
Back
Top