i've been mr. mom since i came to canada. (i have another name for it that i can't use in polite company) i do all the cooking, cleaning, and shopping. although, for that one month i was working i didn't do the household stuff. i don't do laundry, except for my own. i hate doing the dishes. with all my heart i hate doing the dishes. but i do all that stuff cause my baby works her butt off, and she should be able to come home to a decent place and not have to deal with the house. i sure hope i go back to work real soon!
Nothing like being a kept man by a good woman, eh Cheeze? :d
I have been a kept man for pretty much the last 18 years, most redundant labor I have ever done. A great majority of that labor involved raising two boys from infancy as a stay at home dad, no day care for my kids. And you can tell it in their discipline, when compared to their cousins. Two of their girl cousins were pretty much pawned off on me during the day and weekends too, I feel like they're my own.
We had a dishwasher and we took it out. As I am always there, I wash dishes as we eat, changing water for each meal or when it gets dirty. We eat off paper plates when the meal calls for it, no need to dirty up a plate for a sandwich and some chips.
Things are getting better now, the boys are old enough to pitch in with chores, oldest one already works on Wednesday and Saturday evenings. Good painter too, I hate painting.
Get work as soon as you can Cheeze, I quit in '92 and then all the jobs went poof around here in the ensuing 12 years, by the time my kids were old enough for me to get a job, everything decent was gone. I went rouge and made some money with free-lance writing and doing models on commission. Things remained so bad (still are), I went on and retired at 62 to be able to draw some college funds for the lads until they are 18.
Caz