Gentlemen, let me thank you for the time and effort in responding.
Brigstock...now *that* information is precisely the sort of thing I was referring to - I honestly have to admit I did not know that (about the SLI)...can you tell me then, would your recommendations echo those of others I've seen here, who say that one card is better than two? (I'm actually considering 2x9800GT's w/1G DDR3 as we speak...or maybe not, as it were) And, if the SLI only uses one card's worth of memory for textures, what becomes of the other 384M?
And Parky...good ole Parky

Well, I can't say it makes me feel *better* exactly...it sorta makes me want to cry *lol* You certainly helped put things in stark contrast, if not perspective.
But, again - for either of you, or anyone else...what could one reasonably expect to get decent graphics - say, sliders at 5-4-4-4-2 - say, maybe 1280x820 (16:10/wide) and *no* stutters or white triangles, etc? Any guesses? Is it all about a video card? Or a CPU? Both? Do I need to not eat for a month? (I'd probably consider it :d )
BTW that XFX card, unless I'm missing something, is $469 at TigerDirect
http://www.tigerdirect.com/applications/SearchTools/item-details.asp?EdpNo=3969465&CatId=28
- not that I can afford it, but still only about 2/3 of what I just spent. Anyway, let's say I bought the card you did, instead of what I bought - that puts us around $900, for the MB, RAM, CPU and video card. Still don't have a case or PSU, no drives or a monitor...as I said, this appears to rapidly approach thousands.
And, perhaps most important of all, is P3 going to substantially change what would be required, as has been recently suggested ?
(And, finally, another disclaimer: If my rather deliberate manner of questions offends anyone, please be assured that's not the purpose here. By training, discipline, and profession, I am compelled to get the 'straight and skinny', as it were - nothing else is intended or desired).
Thanks to you each.