I can contribute a bit
My friend is 94 and was WW 2 pilot(I am 52 and hope to be as well with 80)
He started in Austrian Airforce 1936 and made License A+B as well as aerobatics to be fighter pilot
Starting with a Stiglitz,then FW56 Stösser and then Fiat CR.32 all were that tail heavy and a Bf-109 was actually less so-and the pilots were used to it.Problem was not this(according to him) but the narrow track with the not straight wheels(still angled when rolling) which made manouvers entertaining.but a Bf-109 was much easier then a FW-58 Weihe(was used as an AAF bomber!!) where the tailwhhel locks automatically when you apply power and then if you have to do a side wind impacted rudder manouver the tail wheel was broken off.After the war he was prisoner and flew Avia's.If you think a Bf-109 G or K is difficult you should try Mike's Avia's-->and according to my friend their behaviour in FS is very much like reality.Maybe once Mike dares to post the FDE here so some can practice using a Bf109 as a base.
So I am fully with Mikes idea to have 2 FDE's a light one and a real one
Roland
My friend was
Austrian Airforce,Legion Condor,KG.76,Luftfloote 4
Trainer in Bulgaria and Roumania
Test Pilot Erprobungstelle Rechlin
back to KG.76
He flew apart above Bf109 B to K,FW190(only D9),He-51,Do-17&217,He-111,Ju-88,ju-52,He-219
Junkers W-34,Bf-110&Me-410 and some more he says he has forgotten