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Sad loss in my home!!!

grunau_baby

grunau_baby

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Yesterday morning big Berta passed away!

She died rather suddenly and unfortunately very painfully in front of a closed emergency door on the parking lot of the vet´s. Still unbelievable: most probably a f... Thrombosis caused by a badly adjusted bandage which she had to wear for a minor wound at her paw in recent weeks.

We are completely traumatized, and it´s sad beyond relief to see the sad face of the remaining sister cat. Even the otherwise rather selfish dog realized the gravity of the situation. We tried everything, but didn´t stand a chance to help her, cause we weren´t able to understand what was wrong...

What hits hardest is the cruelty of her death, the poor animal didn´t deserve that... And now there´s something missing here... What´s left is pain and sorrow! We are trying to make the cat-sister cope with it as best as we can.

regards
Alex
 
Aww That is so sad to hear.....I am so sorry to hear about your poor kitty...

What a horriable thing to have to witness..

All you can do is know that she is at peace now and was loved and will be missed....

Its so sad though an will be hard to adjust..I love animals and understand just how you feel...
 
Dear Alex,

I'm very sorry to learn of your loss, and especially under such tragic circumstances.

Your love for Berta shines through your words. That love lives on in your heart, a bit of Berta that will never leave you. I hope it won't be too long before that love begins to temper your grief with joyful memories of your years together.

You and your family have my deepest sympathy.

Just this side of heaven is a place called Rainbow Bridge.
When an animal dies that has been especially close to someone here, that pet goes to Rainbow Bridge.
There are meadows and hills for all of our special friends so they can run and play together.
There is plenty of food, water and sunshine, and our friends are warm and comfortable.

All the animals who had been ill and old are restored to health and vigor; those who were hurt or maimed are made whole and strong again, just as we remember them in our dreams of days and times gone by.
The animals are happy and content, except for one small thing; they each miss someone very special to them, who had to be left behind.

They all run and play together, but the day comes when one suddenly stops and looks into the distance. His bright eyes are intent; His eager body quivers. Suddenly he begins to run from the group, flying over the green grass, his legs carrying him faster and faster.

You have been spotted, and when you and your special friend finally meet, you cling together in joyous reunion, never to be parted again. The happy kisses rain upon your face; your hands again caress the beloved head, and you look once more into the trusting eyes of your pet, so long gone from your life but never absent from your heart.

Then you cross Rainbow Bridge together....
 
So sorry to hear your sad news. We've been dealing with kitty problems here too. Lot's of vet visits. It amazes me how much we love them.
I'm so sorry for your loss. Best thing you can do now is give all the extra love to your remaining animals. After a little while, go rescue another one from the shelter. That's what we did after our loss a few years ago. Never regretted it. It helps both you and the animal.
 
TomSteber said:
...After a little while, go rescue another one from the shelter. That's what we did after our loss a few years ago. Never regretted it. It helps both you and the animal.
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Absolutely! We can never "replace" the ones we lose, but the new ones make their own places in our hearts.

Alex, I'll bet you know this already.

My Rusty was gone barely a week when his doctor called me about an injured stray she'd taken in and fixed up. Scamper soothed my broken heart and brought me great joy. I still grieved terribly for Rusty (and I think I always will) but Scamper made it easier to bear. Then along came Rowdy (the "baby tomcat" in my banner, though he's no longer a baby) and he brought joyous chaos to Scamper's and my lives.
 
Miss Haley and i pass on our condolances(even though she just bit me as im typing)its a shame that the emergincy door was closed...id complain..
 
Alex

I am deeply saddened to hear of your sudden and heart-wrenching loss. Losing a much loved pet is never easy, but losing one suddenly and without a clear reason is even worse.

I know that feeling well....Spud, the pooch in my avatar, was a happy, loving, and healthy 17-month old wonder dog. He had just been to the vet 4 months before and given a clean bill of health...the vet said he was one of healthiest dogs he had seen in a long time. Then on January 14, 2007, at approximately 10pm...Spud went into seizures. First one, then another, and another and another...they came quicker, harder and lasted longer each time. It took 4 hours to get a hold of the vet for an emergency visit. By the time I made that 20 drive across the county, Spud was having so many seizures so close together that he was basically in a continuous seizure state. Those cluster seizures took too much from him....he died before the vet could find out the cause of them.

I also recommend finding a new kitty to bring into your home as quickly as you can do so...give yourself some time to grieve for Berta...but not too long. A new kitty will never replace Berta, but it will help to fill that hole in your heart and in your home....the sister-cat and the selfish dog will also be feeling the loss of Berta, and a new house mate will help them recover as well.

For me, the hole in my heart was filled 13 months after Spud's loss by a 1.1 pound female Chihuahua that I named Hazel. I, as a general rule, do not like Chihuahuas....in fact I despise them. I would never be cruel toward one, but I would never have one as a pet/companion. In spite of her being a Chihuahua, Hazel is my Baby Gurl....love that little dog as much as I loved Spud....it helps that she is so much like him, just 1/6th his size. Having her in my life has helped diminish the pain from Spud's loss...I guess Deb knew what she was doing when she brought Hazel home to me.

Tim
 
Mr. Alex,

Sorry to hear about Bertha leaving you and going to rainbow bridge. She will be happy there without sickness. my Mom's dog Wally is there too. bye.
 
I am truly sorry to hear of your Loss..I too understand the loss of a dearly Loved Pet..
As Has been said remember the wonderful bond you shared and Know that Our Lord loves You.
May Your pain be healed...And May you find Peace..
 
Sorry to hear about your loss, Alex.
Lost plenty of pets in the past, and sadly not all to old age. It never gets any easier, but it helps to remember the good times.
 
Im sorry to hear about this Alex. My condolences to you and your familly.

They are like our kids.

I remember when I lost Katja. Man... That devistated me. I was a wreck for weeks. She was like a child to me.

We just lost one of our Charpeis, little Cheng Lee. She had been pretty ill and it finally came to the end. We were all around her, petting her when she went. It was very sad. Her pain was gone...


That rainbow bridge is an awesome website. My mother went there when coping with the loss of two of our dogs. It helped her get through it. She would read other peoples incidences and it helped her to cope with it.

You just want to turn back time and make things right...


May you two endure this horrible time and may the good times with your friend/family member always be remembered.


Bill
 
Thanks for the kind words!

It hurts a lot, especially at home. When our only cat at that time died a long time ago we just passed a lot off time out, but now this would mean to leave the left over sister alone at home. The two cats have been together all of their life, however haven´t been all to close to each other. We cannot replace the loss of course, but we are thinking about another new companion for the lonely cat, since we both work we don´t think it appropriate to leave the poor animal alone all day. But we will have to see if our cat really wants this and how she copes with a stranger in her territory. Time will tell, but there are plans... It may also sooth the hurt a bit!

Alex
 
Sorry to hear about Bertha's passing away. :engel016:

Surely, you will miss Bertha. And I hope you get another kitten for the lonely cat!
 
A fine feline warrior has left the earthly premises to go hunt mice somewhere better. Meow! :salute:
 
Sorry to hear of your loss ALex, my condolences. It's heartbreaking to lose a pet, especially one that's loved so much.
 
Sorry to hear of Bertha's passing and I know that my meager words won't offer any comfort toward that loss, but know this, "We (this e-family), do care and offer our condolences in your time of pain."

CAD
 
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